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Safety First: The Beginning of My Van Life Journey

Let’s talk about something incredibly important— Staying safe while van camping, or traveling in general. My name is Lydia Keen, and I’ve been traveling the country car camping part-time since 2015. My adventure began as a freelance model, and I want to share a little bit of my story and some crucial safety tips with you.

Ten years ago, I took a leap of faith by answering a Craigslist ad to be a model (I know, I know). I wanted to leave my bubble, and I took a chance. I drove to Chicago, met with a manager of some made-up company, and learned the ropes. It wasn’t long before I realized he wasn’t trustworthy. So, with three other models who were in the same boat, we struck out on our own.

Over the next few years, we supported each other, built up our networks, and traveled across the country by Greyhound bus, train, plane, and eventually cars, even turning my minivan into a camper. (Full Van Conversion Video Here)

Those experimental years came with their fair share of challenges and risky situations. I’ve faced my ups and downs, and through it all, I’ve become a passionate advocate for safety in both travel and modeling.

In this post, I’m going to share some tips drawn from my own many failures, with the hope that they can help you feel safe on your journeys—especially when traveling solo. If you find this blog helpful, please share it with your friends. Let’s dive in!

How I Find Safe Parking

When it comes to safe van camping, research is key. Since I don’t always know where I’ll end up, I’ve developed a system for finding safe spots, whether I’m on the road, in the city, or out in the country. I always try to find a site before dark so I can get a better sense of the area.

On the Road:
If I’m in route to a destination, I usually stop at truck stops like Loves, rest areas, or campgrounds.

In the City:
I use apps like IOverlander or Harvest Hosts to see if there are any spots nearby. If not, I’ve come up with a method- Once I reach my destination, I drive around to get a feel for the area. I use Google Maps to look for nearby parks, apartments, or upscale stores like Whole Foods, which are usually in safer areas with parking in surrounding areas. I check the satellite view on my phone to see the parking availability and look for lakes or greenery. After that I sometimes check Zillow for neighborhood safety. If I can’t find parking, I check other spots in a similar area. I made a YouTube short in regards to this topic, check it out here.

Places like Walmart, Cabela’s, Cracker Barrel, Home Depot, Bass Pro Shops, truck stops, rest areas, and casinos are reliable. For 24-hour businesses, laundromats, diners (like Waffle House, IHOP, or Denny’s), and gyms are also good options. Hotels, hospitals, and airports can be alternatives too.

In Rural Areas:
I try to use iOverlander and Harvest Hosts whenever I can. If I’m near BLM land or a national forest, I look for a spot, make sure I have service, and set up for the night. When I’m solo, I prefer staying in more established places like state parks or national forests for a little extra peace of mind.

Apps I Use:
I rely on apps to help me find great spots for van camping. My go-to free app is iOverlander. It’s a fantastic community-based platform with thousands of sites and user reviews. My favorite paid platform is Harvest Hosts, which I highly recommend.

Why I Love Harvest Hosts:
If you’re looking for a secure and unique experience, Harvest Hosts is the way to go! I can’t say enough good things about them. With over 4,000 host locations across North America—including wineries, farms, breweries, and museums—there’s something for everyone. For an annual membership of around $99, you get access to these fantastic spots, with the condition of supporting local businesses by purchasing their products or services. Not only does this give you a safe and scenic place to park your van, but it also lets you connect with local hosts and enjoy the culture. I’ve made lifelong friends through this experience, and knowing I’m supporting small businesses makes it all the more worthwhile.

Apps like these are invaulable resources to find van camping:

Harvest Host: My personal favorite because it allows me to connect with people and support local businesses.

  • Harvest Host: My personal favorite because it allows me to connect with people and support local businesses.
  • iOverlander: A favorite among van life communities for finding campsites and other resources.
  • Allstays.com: Known for detailed rest area reviews and other traveler information.
  • Campendium: Offers extensive campsite reviews and RV park information.
  • Sēkr: A great resource for finding campsites and connecting with other travelers.
  • Hipcamp: For more unique experiences, and events you can visit Hipcamp.

For city camping, I try to choose well-lit, secure parking areas with surveillance or nearby campers. I avoid isolated places, especially at night.

Summary: Safe van camping requires research and a system for finding secure spots whether on the road, in the city, or in rural areas. I rely on truck stops, rest areas, campgrounds, and reliable businesses, using tools like Google Maps, Zillow, and apps like Campendium or iOverlander to find safe parking and campsites.

Secure Your Space: Van Life Night Routine 

When I finally find my spot for the night, I follow a routine to ensure I’m as safe and secure as possible. First, I clear everything out of the front seat to avoid drawing attention. Then, I hang up dark curtains to keep the inside of my van hidden from view. I also have a fake camera in the front, which I think adds a sense of deterrence, though I’m not entirely sure how effective it is. I then set up my portable toilet, as I prefer not to get out of my van at odd hours of the night. This is optional, but for me, it makes me feel safer.

Once everything is in place, I lock my doors, which activates my security system. I also keep an oddball weapon, like an axe or pepper spray, near the door for added protection. I make sure there’s an open path to the driver’s seat, so nothing blocks my way if I need to drive off quickly. When it’s time to sleep, I keep my phone and keys close so I can set off the alarm if anyone tries to get in. It’s all about staying prepared and being ready to react quickly if needed.

Summary: When I find my spot for the night, I follow a routine to stay safe, including clearing the front seat, hanging dark curtains, setting up a portable toilet, and locking my doors with my security system. I keep an open path to the driver’s seat, a weapon nearby for protection, and my phone and keys close in case I need to react quickly.

Share your Location & Itinerary: 

Before heading off the grid, I always share my entire itinerary with my parents and a friend or two, so they know my destination and return time. Regularly update them on your location and any changes to your plans​. I also share my location with three people for safety and use a device like the Garmin InReach Mini to stay connected in emergencies, especially in areas without cell service, like on hikes, or while camping BLM style on the West Coast.

Summary: Keep in touch with your friends and family. Share your travel plans.

Trust Your Instincts: 

When you’re traveling alone in your vehicle, it’s crucial to trust your instincts and be aware of your surroundings. If a place feels unsafe, don’t hesitate to leave and find a safer location. Your vehicle provides the flexibility to move whenever you need to.

Our intuition is both a deep, instinctive knowing and something that’s grounded in science. I recently came across an article from Harvard Business Publishing that explains how intuition comes from recognizing patterns. Our brains can detect patterns based on past experiences, even if we’re not consciously aware of it. So, a gut feeling often shows up when our brain notices something familiar or potentially dangerous and signals us to take notice. In summary, trust your instincts! Our intuition is a valuable safety tool, processing far more information than we might consciously realize.

Summary: Trust your instincts!

Drive Responsibly

Stay aware of your surroundings while driving. “Look out for the other guy,” my dad always says. Every time you get in a car, you’re putting your life at risk. It may seem like common sense to put your phone down or to avoid drinking and driving, but accidents still happen, and the statistics below speak for themselves. This is one of the many reasons I quit drinking in 2021—it’s not worth the risk. Now, my friends know they can count on me for a safe ride home. All statistics and info can be found on World Health Organization Website, here.

Global Traffic Deaths: According to the World Health Organization (WHO), around 1.35 million people die each year from road traffic accidents, which amounts to about 3,700 deaths per day globally​

Leading Cause of Death: For people aged 5-29 years, road traffic accidents are the leading cause of death.

Risk of Accidents: The National Safety Council (NSC) in the U.S. reports that you’re more likely to die in a car crash than in any other form of transportation. The odds of dying in a motor vehicle crash in the U.S. are about 1 in 107.

Common Causes: Human error is responsible for 94% of all car accidents, with the most common factors being distracted driving (e.g., texting or talking on the phone), speeding, impaired driving (e.g., alcohol or drugs), and fatigue.

This is tough to hear, but it shows why we all need to be extra careful behind the wheel.

Summary: Drive safe. Look out for the other guy!

Self Defense

The key to solo van life safety is avoiding risky situations while being prepared in case things go wrong. Self-defense options vary—consider carrying pepper or bear spray, a personal alarm, a knife, or taking a self-defense class, but only choose what you’re comfortable with. If you choose to carry a firearm, make sure you understand the laws regarding firearms when traveling across state lines, and gun safety. Use good judgment, and be ready to protect yourself if needed.

During the pandemic, I became concerned about civil unrest and wanted to feel safer while traveling. I learned gun safety and got my concealed pistol license. While I’m not a gun person and don’t want to harm anyone, I felt it was important to know how to defend myself if needed. However, after taking a few trips with the weapon, I found it complicated due to varying state laws and the responsibility of keeping it safe in my car. I didn’t want to risk someone taking it or having to use it in a dangerous situation. So, I decided to switch to a non-lethal self-defense option that helps me feel secure without the added concerns.

After researching and getting feedback from friends, I chose the Byrna Kinetic Launcher, which uses compressed air-powered projectiles to deter attackers without causing permanent harm. It’s legal in all 50 states and gives me a better sense of security when camping or remote hiking. Now, it may not be practical for some- so please do your own research as well before purchase. Everyone has their own approach to self-defense, and I just want to highlight that there are alternatives for those who prefer non-lethal options. I bring the Byrna device in my car for van trips, but when I’m out and about, I rely on a the Shes Birdie Personal Alarm and carry SABRE pepper spray with me.

Summary: It’s important to find self-defense methods that make you feel safe and confident. Whether it’s pepper spray, a personal alarm, or another option, trust your instincts and choose what works best for you. Your safety is a personal decision, and there are many tools available to help you feel secure.

Don’t Draw Attention On the Way

No matter how confident or put-together I feel, I know that in certain areas, it’s best not to attract too much attention. After a few instances of being followed or approached, I’ve learned to stay alert and aware of my surroundings. If needed, I’ll throw on a hoodie and hat to keep a low profile. This is my go-to hoodie because its cozy, baggy covers my bum!

Summary: Pay attention to your surroundings- if it means throwing on a baggy hoodie, do it!

Packing and Planning

A few years ago, I was the first to arrive at the scene of a winter car accident. I felt helpless and didn’t know what to do except offer comfort to the passengers until help arrived. Since then, I’ve made sure to equip myself with a well-stocked Emergency Kit for any situation that might arise on the road. I also signed up for an AED course to learn basic medical skills. I have a list of essential items for safety and preparedness, which you can check out here.

Another great thing to do is have a hard copy of important details like emergency contacts, hotel addresses, and health insurance. I keep this in that same kit.

Summary: Pack the emergency roadside kit.

Have an Emergency Fund or Backup Credit Card

This is crucial. Having an emergency fund or a credit card you can rely on is essential in case you need to rent a car or cover unexpected costs. It’s important to always be financially prepared.

In January 2024, I planned a big road trip with my dad down to Key West. Unfortunately, the transmission failed in Kentucky, and we weren’t able to rent a car because neither of us had credit cards. It was a tough lesson learned! Thankfully, I was able to hitch a ride back to Michigan, get a different car, and continue our journey, but that experience really drove home the importance of being prepared for the unexpected.

Summary: Have a backup fund or credit card available. Anything can happen.

Vehicle Maintenence

Always fill up your gas tank regularly to avoid the risk of running out of fuel and getting stranded. This may seem like a no-brainer, but I’ve been the girl on the side of the road with no gas- and its a pretty darn vulnerable situation to be in. Also, make sure to maintain your vehicle with regular tune-ups and oil changes to keep it running smoothly and prevent breakdowns while on the road. Keeping your van in top shape is key to staying safe and having a stress-free journey!

Side tip -When I need to restock on food and fuel, I’ll make a pitstop at Costco for cheaper gas. I also use an app called GasBuddy to find cheap gas in route.

Summary: Keep your gas tank full and maintain your vehicle with regular tune-ups and oil changes to avoid breakdowns.

Travel Insurance

Travel insurance is super important for van life! It covers you in case of medical emergencies, trip cancellations, or theft while you’re on the road. Check your current insurance plan to see if it includes travel coverage. If it doesn’t, look into getting a travel-specific insurance plan. There are different options for coverage within your state and for trips abroad.

Here are some top travel insurance options recommended by van life communities. Since I travel part-time I do have insurance in-state- but when traveling abroad I use SafetyWing.

  • World Nomads: Known for its flexibility and comprehensive coverage, World Nomads is popular among van lifers. It covers a wide range of activities and can be tailored to long-term travel needs.
  • SafetyWing: This insurance is designed for digital nomads and long-term travelers, offering affordable monthly plans. SafetyWing allows you to start, pause, or cancel your plan as needed, which is perfect for the unpredictable schedule of van life.
  • IMG Global: They offer customizable plans for international travel, catering to the needs of full-time travelers with various coverage options.
  • Allianz Travel Insurance: Allianz is praised for its comprehensive coverage and reliable customer service. They have several plans that can accommodate long-term travel.
  • Geoblue: This insurance is ideal for international travelers, providing coverage for medical evacuations and other emergencies, which is especially useful in remote areas.

Join the Van Life Community

Connect with van life communities both online and in person, such as groups on Facebook, forums like Vanlife Reddit, or local meetups and gatherings. These communities offer support, advice, and companionship, which can enhance your safety and overall van life experience.

Avoid Oversharing on Social Media:

Be mindful about sharing your location and travel plans on social media to avoid unwanted attention. I wait a couple days to a week before posting about a location.

In Conclusion

In conclusion, safety is a top priority when it comes to van life and solo travel. From securing your parking spot and trusting your instincts to choosing the right self-defense tools, it’s all about being prepared and staying aware. No matter how you choose to protect yourself, the most important thing is to find what works best for you. We all have our own way of doing things, and for me, it’s been about learning, adapting, and staying aware. The road can be full of surprises, but with the right planning and you can feel confident and secure on your journey. Stay safe, be prepared, and enjoy the adventure!

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